Don't get me wrong, I'm not the arbitor of Right and Wrong. All I know is, the first report I heard was that foremer NFL MVP QB Steve McNair and a woman were found shot to death in his condo. ... I thought, wow, that is sad and suspicious.
Then we got a little more info: McNair, 36, who is married with four kids, was found with a 20-year-old young woman, and they were shot by her ex.
Moral of the story: Don't cheat. You never know what a piece of a** could cost you.
Wait, I'm wrong for that! - let me be a lil more sensitive: I don't know McNair's home situation. I don't know if he and his wife were seperated or happily married or what...and I technically don't know that the deceased young lady was his jumpoff....What I can say is, yall old mf's need to leave them young gurls alone. If I'm nearly 40 and you just made it out of your teens, what are we chitchatting about and how do we hook up to where you at my crib on the one-on-one QT tip? Maybe he was "mentoring" the child.
But that's not my business. I honestly feel this is a sad story, and my heart goes out to his family......but guys consider this....an MVP, Pro-Bowler, Super Bowl playing, 16-year NFL vet is dead now...over a chick.
You never know what you're getting yourself into, and it is likely he had no way of knowing the danger he was in by associating with this woman, but let's all try our hardest to make wise decisions.
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Sorry, can't get with you on this one, Deva. You start off saying you don't know what the situation was, but end up saying McNair died over a chic. Truth is, no one really knows why he died and beyond the coroner's and police guesses, no one will ever know for sure.
Besides that, what's with the old guy/young girl thing? Last I checked, both of them were adults. It's not a relationship I'd choose but neither is it a cautionary tale. Any man, or woman, could faced the same fate. People have been murdered by husbands or wives of the same age who they thought loved them. People who are a generation apart have found happiness together. I can't understand the rush to make some kind of social commentary out of this. Some things just are what they are: tragic occurances from which there can be no larger conclusions drawn.
Keith, thank you for reading, first off. And you raise very valid points...but you know that. I think what I meant was this: Yes it was a tragic occurrence. No, we dont know why they died. We don't know if a jealous ex did it or if she did it,but.....we can safely say that if the married man had not made the decision to be out cavorting with the child, this specific situation would not have occurred.
"we can safely say that if the married man had not made the decision to be out cavorting with the child, this specific situation would not have occurred."
CAN we say that safely, though? There are still plenty of questions out there, and still another set of hypotheticals that make me uncomfortable about drawing any conclusions. The biggest question to me is about his friend/roommate, who showed up, found the bodies and then called not the police, but somebody else, then waited until they got there and called the police afterwards. Questionable, if not suspicious.
Now for the hypotheticals: we don't know how bad things were in his marriage. There might have been a domestic violence situation. It's possible his wife might have been seeing someone else. All we know is that he met a terrible end. We don't know that that same end, or a similar one, would not have happened had he not been seeing the youngin, simply because we will never know for sure why they died.
Um...since it has been concluded that SHE bought the gun and SHE is the shooter, then, yes, now we can safely say that.
Yes, any friend who finds you dead and doesn't immediately call the police is suspicious as well. But we will squarely place the blame in this sitch on Ms. Kazemi.
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