Cheers

I read a quote recently that said, "You know you're over something if you can see somebody enjoying what you once had and be genuinely happy for them."

Keep that in mind as I share this story that many of you might be able to relate to. Late last night, someone sent me a picture of a baby. I'd never seen the little girl before, so I texted back, "Who the heck is that?" Apparently, the last guy I dealt with recently impregnanted someone and she had his baby.

Well, to be quite honest, I really had strong feelings for that young man. It's safe to say I took the whole disassociation process kinda hard...a few months ago I might have been a lil broken up to find that he has a baby...but today, I truly don't care.

I'm not bitter, not salty, not hurt...nope, for the most part I'm indifferent. I would say I don't give a f***, but there's a new life involved - so it's better to say I wish the little girl the best.

And I actually went on about my business very peacefully after I erased the picture, because due to my reaction, I can now safely say that I feel whole. Some ppl take a lil longer to get over than others, but I'm so happy right now that it would take a lot to shake me.

Good luck and God bless to all y'all! I dodged that bullet! :o)