7 x 70

This is a serious issue.

Ladies are the most forgiving people ever. And we know that's what you're "supposed" to do, butttt we sometimes sit right on the borderline between being "forgiving" and being a wishy-washy, weak female.

I read something a while ago that said, "There's no real harm in being deceived." I mean, you get your feelings hurt; you might be mistrustful of others for a while, but what's the real harm? We can argue that, but honestly, it seems like whenever we're forgiving, we're just kinda giving a dude a chance to evenutally hoe us again..... becuz they usually do. If you forgive but keep your walls up, are you really doing it right? I had sum1 apologize to me not too long ago...said how much they missed talking to me and everything...first I wanted to say OK and ignore them...then that little conscience of mine told me to be a bigger person. BUT now, here it is again, and that person is no longer speaking to me. Again. Yea, we really squashed that beef.

I'ma invite yall to share your stories and let me judge if you were being a good-hearted Christian or if you were just silly and weak. lol