Here's something very disappointing...probably only the ladies will relate. But if you've ever had this happen, it's a bit of a hard pill to swallow: when you are interested in someone and find out they only want you for one thing....
Some guys are more deceptive with the game. Others are transparent. Yesterday, a guy said to me, straight up, "You already know what I'm trying to do." Keep in mind he has spoken to me for weeks without so much as asking my name, but this day he decided to ask me if I would come over his house. At first the line was, "I need someone to clean my house." Then it was just, "So when you comin over?" His house is new, and he told me there was nothing much in it, so i'm like, what would I come over for? That's when he was like...'you already know'
So wait, he tried me like a hoe...and a housekeeper.
I previously thought he was cool people...now I know not to even deal with him...
I don't mind sharing because his trying me is not a reflection on me; I recognize that not everyone will see your worth. But I think we devalue ourselves when we entertain these ppl anyway (which, ladies, you know sometimes we do.)
1 comment:
I love your post. My sister told me one time that if a person wants to play you, they will try. This no reflection on you as you mentioned, but at least he did eventually say what he was thinking. It is a bummer though when you like someone and they turn out to be a buzz kill.
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